When you don’t know what to say to a caller or a chat person^_ ^(Ascension Papers, Removing the Blockages to Love: Judgement, If others stand in judgement of you, then these judgements of theirs do not tell you who you are.)

When you don’t know what to say to a caller or a chat person^_ ^(Ascension Papers, Removing the Blockages to Love: Judgement, If others stand in judgement of you, then these judgements of theirs do not tell you who you are.)

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Talk about yourself, your feelings, in the same context

The best thing that you can do to be of service to anyone is to show up and be present with them. Listen. Tune in to them, and express your feelings.

How to Know Yourself as Source Energy ∞The 9D Arcturian Council, Channeled by Daniel Scranton

“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.

We are very determined to give you the best of who we are, because we can feel ourselves expanding and becoming more of our Source Energy Selves when we do so. When you interact with any other being, whether they are human, animal, plant, or extra-terrestrial, we invite you to do the same. Seek your expansion by giving the best of who and what you are, and you will receive that expansion. You will know yourselves more as Source Energy Beings. You will benefit even more so than the individual you are connecting with in that moment.

The best thing that you can do to be of service to anyone is to show up and be present with them. Listen. Tune in to them, and express your feelings. That is how you evolve and transform, and there has never been a better time there on Earth for showing up for your fellow humans. This is not an easy time to be there on Earth, and yet, those of you who are there are there because you knew you would be up to the challenges this lifetime would put in front of you.

You have already awakened so much of the truth of who you are as Source Energy Beings in the flesh, and yet, there is so much more for you to discover about who you are and for you to awaken in others. Helping others realize that they are powerful creator beings, that they are Source Energy in the flesh, these are the ultimate goals of the lightworker. Certainly by being the light, by being yourselves to the fullest extent possible, you are shining more light into your world and activating what needs to be activated within people.

But also, you want to hold that awareness within you that you are always interacting with another aspect of Source, and that you are co-creating together a beautiful experience, a beautiful opportunity to become more of who you really are. And if you as the awakened collective could hold that awareness of who you are within yourselves, even for one day, you would see and feel the enormous impact that you are having on your world, as individuals and as a collective.

You will continue to grow, expand, and evolve, no matter what, but when you do it on purpose, it is so much sweeter and so much more enjoyable. And when you help someone else realize who they really are, then you have more friends to play with in the higher frequencies, in the leading-edge energies that are upon you at this time.

We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”

How to Know Yourself as Source Energy ∞The 9D Arcturian Council

^_^

The Ascension Papers

Chapter 11

What is love

3.1 Removing the Blockages to Love

3.1.1 Judgement

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If others stand in judgement of you, then these judgements of theirs do not tell you who you are.

“Other’s judgements of you do not show you who you are, they show you who they are!”

“Your judgements of others do not tell you anything about them. They tell you something about yourself!”

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every possible thing that could be, is. Right now, it is. Every wonderful loving world that could exist, does.

And every painful place of evil and torment too. All the possibilities exist.

Infinity would not be infinity if they did not exist.

The fact of their existence is not at question. The question that you should ask yourself is quite simply, what do you want to experience? Or, put another way, what do you wish to create for yourself?

And while you are asking that question, you should release others to experience anything and everything they might want and need to experience for themselves. Because you cannot create for yourself this freedom to experience exactly the world you want to experience if you are not willing to grant this to everyone else. What you do to others, you do to yourself also, remember? So give to others the right to create what they want. Release completely and lovingly everything you do not want for yourself. Cease any and all judgement of it, or of those who wish to experience it. And then choose what you want, and move towards that.

This is a very important understanding, so I am going to tell you about it again in a different way:

You’ll recall I told you that everything that exists is created with imbalance and that nothing exists without imbalance.

This means that everything that is created also immediately creates its “opposite” to counter balance it.

you cannot create something without having someone

else create the opposite.

This logically means that you should be grateful to every other being who is choosing every other thing that you are not choosing. You should be especially grateful to those who are choosing what seems to you to be the opposite of what you are choosing. All these beings are, in a way, making it possible for you to choose as you are. You could say that you are all counter-balancing each other, enabling them, making it possible for them to be as they are. You are, in fact, a particle of life that is in a dance with every other particle of life, everywhere. You are the soul-mate of every other being, everywhere. You are all intimately connected to all of life.

Do you see the short-sighted silliness of judgement? You cannot ask a single other being to stop doing what they are doing, without at the same time also stopping doing what you are doing. And the corollary is true – if you change yourself, then you change the whole universe. Can you see the power of the dictum that you should become the change you desire? For indeed, by changing yourself, you do change your whole world and your whole experience. You bring to yourself a whole universe of experience that is a direct reflection of who you are.

Indeed you are a creator being. You have always been.

You have simply created without purpose and without direction in your ignorance.

So judgement is counter-productive. And a waste of your time and energy.

And, most importantly, it places a huge block in your heart and stops the light of Love from channelling though you. It gets in the way of your creating for yourself a new world of Love.

Let it go!

If you encounter someone making a choice that is not right for you, then be thankful.

Now you don’t have to make that choice. Send them love. The more difficult their path is, the more love they need.

Send them abundant love.

And then think upon your choices. If you like the outcome of your choices, then you need to be especially grateful to all those others.

Without their contribution, your choices would not be available to you.

They would not be “counterbalanced” in the field of consciousness of the oneness.

Gratitude is the answer. Be grateful. Send thanks. Send love. I made the statement earlier:

“You are who you say you are.”

This statement was slipped in earlier in the context of telling you about ego. But it is a very important understanding. It has many uses.

The first is, of course, that you should become very clear about who you think you really are, and then you should say so.

I don’t mean you should “say so” only in words. I mean you should express who you really believe yourself to be in your every thought and word and deed.

You should say so from your heart.

And then it will be so. But be clear! If you say contradictory things about yourself, then you will have a confused and incongruous experience of yourself and your life. This is never pleasant.

So how do you find who you really are and how do you express that?

You go to your heart!

When you follow your heart and choose what is right for you, then that is discernment in action.

This is your divine-right navigation of your own creator nature. It is you, quite simply, choosing and creating what is right for you.

Quite a different thing from you standing on the outside, looking in to someone else’s life and residing in judgement of them. We shall talk more about listening to your heart in a moment.

But for now, the point I wish to bring to the fore is this: you are who you say you are.

If others stand in judgement of you, then these judgements of theirs do not tell you who you are.

“Other’s judgements of you do not show you who you are, they show you who they are!”

And this can be very useful. When you know who others are, then you can decide if their being resonates with yours. You can enact your discernment and decide if engaging with them is “right for you” or not. Surely you should draw yourself towards that which is “right for you” and away from that which is “wrong for you”? So it is useful to get a clear picture of who others are. And a great way to do this is to watch what they say of you!

But have a mind! Your judgements of others are just the same.

“Your judgements of others do not tell you anything about them. They tell you something about yourself!”

So your judgements and ideas of others are useful – if you know how to use them! Watch those judgements and opinions rise to the surface and ask yourself, “What am I telling myself about myself right now?” Somewhere in your judgement there hides a deep desire that is denied. Or possibly a deep hurt that is unexpressed. There is something deep within yourself that you are hiding from yourself. It finds expression by rising to the surface when someone else, in some way, is doing this thing that you are denying yourself or rejecting from yourself.

So watch those judgements! They are most instructive. And if you process them correctly, they will dissolve, because the underlying rejection or So how do you find who you really are and how do you express that?

You go to your heart! When you follow your heart and choose what is right for you, then that is discernment in action. This is your divine-right navigation of your own creator nature. It is you, quite simply, choosing and creating what is right for you. Quite a different thing from you standing on the outside, looking in to someone else’s life and residing in judgement of them. We shall talk more about listening to your heart in a moment.

But for now, the point I wish to bring to the fore is this: you are who you say you are. If others stand in judgement of you, then these judgements of theirs do not tell you who you are.

“Other’s judgements of you do not show you who you are, they show you who they are!”

And this can be very useful. When you know who others are, then you can decide if their being resonates with yours. You can enact your discernment and decide if engaging with them is “right for you” or not. Surely you should draw yourself towards that which is “right for you” and away from that which is “wrong for you”? So it is useful to get a clear picture of who others are. And a great way to do this is to watch what they say of you!

But have a mind! Your judgements of others are just the same.

“Your judgements of others do not tell you anything about them. They tell you something about yourself!”

So your judgements and ideas of others are useful – if you know how to use them! Watch those judgements and opinions rise to the surface and ask yourself, “What am I telling myself about myself right now?” Somewhere in your judgement there hides a deep desire that is denied. Or possibly a deep hurt that is unexpressed. There is something deep within yourself that you are hiding from yourself. It finds expression by rising to the surface when someone else, in some way, is doing this thing that you are denying yourself or rejecting from yourself.

So watch those judgements! They are most instructive. And if you process them correctly, they will dissolve, because the underlying rejection or denial in your own psyche is healed. Each judgement you dissolve is a step closer to Love.

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